Archive for August, 2011

August 17th, 2011

Why I’m Jumping on the Holly Jackson Bandwagon

If you read my writing blog, you know I’m not always a fan of online classes. Well, scratch that. I’m a little skeptical about “join this,” “sign up for that” programs. That’s because I’ve paid for more than my share of broken promises courses.

And I’m not eating my words with this post either.

Cause I do believe in investing in yourself.

I know that when you find the right program, one that doesn’t promise a join this, get rich scheme, and you do the hard work, it actually works.

So this one is for you.

It’s for the courageous creatives or adventurous entrepreneurs who have finally decided to take that risky leap into the field of your dreams. Big leaps, however, require soft landings. This post written by copywriting genius and social media maven Holly Jackson is to introduce you to her upcoming marketing courses.

Holly Jackson isn’t a name I picked out of a hat. I’ve been following this girl and her website Cottage Copy for awhile. I’m not embarrassed to say that I’ve been stalking reading her blogs for about a year now. She’s even guest posted on my writing blog. It’s because her talent is evident, her non-spammy message is clear and I adore her and her creative copywriting that I finally decided to become an affiliate for her program.

Basically, it means that if you sign-up for her course clicking here , I will receive a small portion of the cost of the course.

In the three or so years that I’ve been blogging, I’ve never done this before and I wouldn’t unless I was passionate about the product. So I hope you will forgive me if I stop gabbing so that you can enjoy what Jackson’s written below. It’ll give you great tips on marketing and a preview into her upcoming marketing class for artists.

 

Why One Marketing Platform Isn’t Enough: A Guide for Artists

by: Holly Jackson

I’ve got a confession. The number one thing I see artists struggle with when trying to sell their stuff is picking the right platform for them. You can have the most fabulous products or the most stylish copywriting or the best marketing plan, but they will all fail if you’re selling using the wrong platform.

We can blame part of this confusion on the Internet. Artist portfolio sites and marketplaces are a dime a dozen now, and figuring out what makes each of them unique can be nearly impossible. Many of them are also hidden behind a pay wall, and many artists don’t have enough capital to try all the options when they’re starting out. By the time you’re established on one, you can’t switch without asking your audience to make the jump with you.

But first, let’s start with the golden rule of marketing.

Your ultimate goal should be to build an audience at your own domain and website.

Translated, this really means you need to build two platforms at the same time. Now, before you flee in terror, this isn’t as bad as it sounds.

 

Step One: Grab your domain name and make a website.

If you’ve done this already, you get a cookie. If not, it’s much easier than it sounds. WordPress is a great platform, and you don’t even have to know anything about tech to make it work. They’ve even got a bunch of free templates if you don’t want to get a custom theme designed. If you want to get a little fancier, there are some great options at places like this.

Congratulations, you’ve got a website.

 

Step Two: Figure out your breadcrumb path.

Ideally you should have a path built in for your customers to get from point A to point B. Lots of people start out by selling lower end things on a third party site, and then help their customers “graduate” to custom ordering and higher end pieces through their own website. One great way to do this can be to connect your store customers to a blog on your own site where you showcase your daily work life, or even your high end commissioned pieces.

 

Step Three: Pick a Third Party Platform.

The biggest platform is Etsy. They’ve got huge amounts of built in traffic, as well as lots of great built in marketing features. The most common complaint I’ve heard about Etsy is that they change the rules fairly often, and demand that you stick to it. For example, they recently changed the way all of the listings are searched, and I know several shop owners who had to redo their stores entirely because of the decision.

The people who run Etsy clearly love artists, but they’re also running a major corporation.

If you want a less corporate marketplace, Artfire has a similar system but is controlled by artists. Society6 is another option that lots of people have been exploring lately.

If you’re looking to get into the service side of things, Hire An Illustrator is a great portfolio site. They have lots of meaningful built in marketing opportunities, and will even email postcards that you send them to art directors all over the world.

Whichever option you pick, the best thing you can do is to do your research thoroughly. Find out what other people in your line of work use, and ask them what they love and hate about it.

 

Step Four: Figure Out Your Missing Link.

The key to making the dual platform work is to spread your content out and create pathways that run through both sites. For instance, you could run sales on your blog that applied to both your website and your third party store. You can leave easter egg links in your store that showcase various aspects of your personality to help your clients get to know you better. You can use social media tools to connect the two, or landing pages to let different audiences view different aspects of your business.

In my experience, you probably won’t hit marketing nirvana right away. Everyone has a different audience, and without some trial and error or hiring an expert, you probably won’t get to know them right away.

What you will have, when all the dust settles, is a system that you can build on no matter how your business gets. That way, when the big wholesale opportunity or gallery show comes along, you’ll be able to prove how solid your platform is.

August 16th, 2011

Bullying Isn’t Just for Kids

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Bullying is a serious thing going on with kids today. But this isn’t about that kind of bullying.

This is the seemingly harmless adult bullying that can steal you away from your dreams.

  • It’s what happens when Aunt Marge asks when are you going to find the “right” one (job, partner, etc.).
  • OR when you’re going to stop with all this silly freelancing and finally settle down.
  • It’s the pressure you feel to conform to other people’s wishes and thereby negating your own.
  • It may not be as life threatening as the bullying that goes on with kids, but it is serious and can be dream threatening for sure!

The sad and unfortunate thing is that most people are doing it for good reason. They want you to be happy, successful and wealthy. But life doesn’t have a perfect one-size-fits-all equation. There’s no way to know which way is the right way.

But one thing’s for sure.

Keep on the road to other people’s dreams and you’ll definitely miss yours.

If you want to be free of dream bullying, however, here are a few tips:

Prepare a mantra ahead of time.

Whether it’s, breathe, calm, peace or love. Think of something that will temporarily distract you when noisy people try to change your mind.

Listen with love. 

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This is a hard one. But most times people give you advice or ask you questions because they are concerned. Many times they don’t realize the consequences of their constant questioning. Instead of responding or reacting, trying listening with love. What they tell you may be more about them and their unfulfilled dreams then about you.

Plan what you’ll say in advance.

Prepare something non-snarky in advance so you don’t experience a slip of the tongue and say something you might regret.

Here are a few examples. When a friend says, “Everyone wants to find their dream job, but we can’t do whatever we want.” You could say, “Thank you. I know you’re concerned about me. But I guess I’m lucky that I can.”

When an acquaintance says, “When are you going to get a real job?” You could say, “I’m pretty happy with the one I have now actually.”

Do you have any advice, tips, suggestions for how to respond when a bully tries to bully you? Share them in the comments below.

August 15th, 2011

Befriending Procrastination: 3 Things Its Trying to Tell You

Sometimes you have a friend or partner or even child for that matter, who doesn’t act on their best behavior. You don’t just end the relationship or give the child away for minor annoyances. You attempt to figure out their intention, have compassion and learn to forgive.

The same can be said with procrastination.

How so?

Procrastination: putting off or delaying, especially something requiring immediate  attention (via Dictionary.com).

Sometimes putting off something isn’t just about you being lazy. Sometimes there’s more to the story than that.

 

What Procrastination Would Tell You if It Could

1. I’m tired. Leave me alone.

Have you been working yourself to the bone? Procrastination is just your an inner child screaming, “Hey, give me a break!” Maybe you’ve neglected other projects because you’re just too tired and drained to get to it.

The solution?

Schedule in some fun time ASAP!

2. I just don’t want to.

You promised a friend you would pick up their dry cleaning or write a guest post. Maybe you agreed to do something out of friendly obligation. But it’s been weeks since you’ve done anything. Maybe there’s a part of you that really doesn’t want to do it. In this case, think of procrastination as a friend reminding you what you’re real priorities are. Embrace it.

3. I’m scared.

Fear is a biggie. You know how much I love talking about it on the blog. Sometimes we avoid things (e.g. the stack of unpaid bills) because we’re scared about facing it. And that’s okay. But acknowledging that procrastination is only a friend helping you to uncover what you’re afraid of dealing with, can be helpful. It may turned a scary nightmare into a dream come true.

Maybe you’re afraid of success. In reaction, you’ve taken jobs beneath your talent.

Maybe you’re afraid of failure and that’s why you’re working yourself to the bone.

Once you discover what procrastination is masking, you can learn ways to treat it like you would a friend: listen non-judgmentally, try to understand their intention, be compassionate and forgive them. When you do that, you’ll learn to see procrastination as a gift. One that might get you closer to your dreams.

If you need more help on managing your fears, this might help.

What do you think procrastination is trying to tell you?

August 12th, 2011

Not Giving Up the Fight

Super woman

Photo of Bette Davis on Pinterest

In case you’re wondering, I’m still striving away.

Yes, I’ve got more work than I know what to do with. But it’s no excuse.

In fact, it’s the reason why I was preparing all summer just in case it came to this.

The more you have to do, the more important it is to keep up the fight.

Right now, in this moment, as you are being the super stars you are, you need to take the time to breathe.

A fellow writer friend asked me the other day how I could do it all-keep up 2 blogs, work as an associate editor for Psych Central, work on two new projects, and flirt with the potential of new freelance jobs.

I won’t lie to you and say it’s easy. In fact, this is the most work I have ever had since I started. It’s taken up late weeknights and weekends. But this time I’m not burning out.

I’m still sleeping (most nights) 8 hours a day, meditating, walking in addition to fitting in zumba, pilates and tai chi. And getting all my work in.

Plus, I’ve cut out all caffeine and have done a pretty good job of eliminating sugar and processed food from my diet.

But I’m not saying this to give you a window into my perfect life. Quite opposite actually. I’m telling you this because the key to changing my lifestyle comes down to this:

 

“Forget perfection and do what’s best for you right now.”

 

It’s not sexy or even very brilliant. But I learned that in order to have a healthy well-balanced life, you really need to break down the idea of having a perfect life.

This means that I don’t always practice tai chi every night for 40 minutes. But on most days I do it for 20-40. It also means that I may not walk every day or that I get everything right all the time. But I know I have tomorrow. And I also know that in order to keep this up, I need to take care of myself. I am my #1 priority. And living healthy means doing the best that I can to achieve that.

If I can exercise, meditate and eat right on most days plus throw in several moments of fun and play, then I can handle my life even when it’s at its craziest.

Have you found the secret to a well-balanced life? Share what you discovered here.

August 11th, 2011

How to Feel Joy Again

Bonnie St. JohnWhen I first saw Bonnie St. John in the documentary Following Dreams” her story moved me to tears.  A best-selling author, mother and inspirational speaker Bonnie has met every challenge given to her with grace, courage and determination.  She is a hero to many (including me).  Bonnie definitely walks the walk, proving by her strength and ability to rise above abuse, divorce and disability that anyone can live joyfully and attain the life of their dreams.  From a little girl with big dreams to an Olympic silver and bronze medalist, author and motivational speaker, her life inspires others to live joyfully.  This is why I am beyond thrilled to have her featured as a Successful Dreamer.  Read on to be inspired.

1) You’re living proof that anyone can transform their life, no matter what their circumstances.  Can you tell us a little bit about how you got through one of the hardest times in your life and how it has helped shape you into the woman you are today?

I gotta be honest. I STILL get upset, scared, and negative when I go through a tough time.  You would think after everything I have been through that I am always calm and never ruffled.  I wish it were so.

Yes, I still get upset when the economy is down, when there’s pain in my close family relationships, or when I have to find a new health insurance plan in NJ.  What I can claim, though, is being good at pulling myself back up again after I fall down.

What do I do? I pray.  I talk with friends.  I exercise and get advice from experts and coaches. In short, I make the effort to reach for the positive.  It isn’t that I am never negative.  It’s just that I don’t choose to stay there.

2) Everything about you radiates joy.  It’s hard to believe that you are not always that way.  What tips/tricks do you use to stay positive and choose joy even during the darkest days?

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August 9th, 2011

Feeling Stuck Sucks

When I was in Hawaii, I did my usual hike with my dad. It was the same route we’ve done since I was a kid. After about the tenth time, I used to sing to keep myself from boredom.

This time, however, I brought my camera.

As I shook my leg to ward off mosquitoes, the way a horse swats flies with its tail, I began to appreciate how ordinary things look pretty extraordinary when you look at it through the lens of a camera.

 

the things you notice when you begin to see...

 

Take this bamboo, for example. It’s something I grew up eating and watching sway back and forth in the mountains. But I never knew it could look like a star or a snowflake, until I peered inside.

 

death can be beautiful too.

 

And I almost passed this one by as I walked head down through the well-worn trail. While the first photo captured the youth and vitality of a supple bamboo, this photo showed another bamboo which had been dried up of life, fallen passed its prime. It was still there, root in ground. And still beautiful.

 

I realized it was all about perspective. Sometimes you need to look for the bright light in a dark, boding tunnel.

Sometimes the answers are hidden. Sometimes they are small and insignificant from afar, but life-changing when up close like moss on a tree.

But the key is to open your eyes and begin to see things in a new way. Change your perspective. Be open to possibility. Appreciating that you will eventually find what it is your are looking for. Zoom in on your life like a camera zooming in on its subject and you will discover what you thought was nothing, was really an open door.

August 8th, 2011

Quitting Corporate World for a More Fulfilling Life

Jaqui DuvallJaqui Duvall has a long list of accomplishments to her name.  She is a life coach, mentor, trainer, facilitator and public speaker.  But she hasn’t always been a successful dreamer.  Find out how this accomplished maven went from corporate world life to living the life of her dreams.

You were doing well in the corporate world, what made you decide to leave?

I had been working in a series of jobs for many years…but feeling unfulfilled. I had a growing urge to do something that would make a difference in the world and in people’s lives.  Through a series of experiences I realized that I had been holding on to the security of a paycheck and totally ignoring my need to create. So when I got laid off, it was very clear to me that it was time to do something different.

How did you know you were making the right decision?

I guess it’s hard to describe in words, but I just had a feeling. A part of me knew that this was the right path for me. Initially, I had no idea what I was going to do, but I felt so elated to be released from what had felt like a prison that I felt certain it would work out.

What drew you into coaching?

Within the first week after being laid off, I learned about Life Coaching. I felt overwhelmed with excitement and certainty that this was the right path for me. I was drawn to the opportunity to make a difference in people’s lives, and to utilize my life long passion for growth and learning and especially to facilitate that for others. And finally, I discovered that coaching could be a very spiritual experience and since that had become a very important aspect of my life, I was delighted to find yet another way to express it.

On the road to fulfilling your dreams, did you have any doubts? Fears? How did you deal with them?

Absolutely. Whenever we step onto a path of uncertainty into an unknown future, there will be doubt and fears. In fact, I would say that fear is a good sign that we’re pushing against our limits and growing, as long as the fear isn’t paralyzing. In which case, we need to face it to the best of our ability and that is exactly how I dealt with it. Please realize this is not something that happened over night, it was a process that has happened over many years and still continues today. There are many processes for dealing with fear and all with the practice of connecting with our “inner” selves in a more conscious and present way so that we loosen the grip fear has on us. Then we can literally channel energy through us to the manifestation of whatever and wherever our creativity takes us.

Have you had a defining moment when you knew you were living the life you were meant to live?

I’ve had several. Times when I was teaching a class or working with a client when I saw a light bulb go on for someone. When something I said made a difference in someone’s life. There are times when I’m speaking that I feel like I’m “in the zone” so to speak, when the words flow through me without thought or effort. It’s times like that when I know that I’m doing what I was born to do.

What advice would you give others looking to face their fears and follow their dreams?

Don’t try to do it alone. Even coaches have coaches. Each of us is limited by our own beliefs, it’s very difficult especially in the beginning to see outside that box. Its helpful to have perspective from caring, objective others. Become a non-judgmental observer of yourself. Begin to notice the feelings, thoughts and body sensations that are communicating your inner experience. They are there for a reason and they have great wisdom for us. Journaling is a great way to begin this practice.

What inspires you?

I am inspired by uplifting and heartwarming stories of transformation and growth as well as compassion and love. People and animals crossing the lines of normal interaction and connecting to help and support others. I’m also inspired by beauty in nature and music.

As a coach and mentor you must see a lot of people wanting to fulfill their dreams. What is the biggest obstacle that people face in doing so?

Fear, fear and more fear.  It appears that fear of success more than fear of failure is stopping people. What I notice is that when we have low self-esteem or limiting core beliefs, pushing the bounds of our limited image of ourselves can be absolutely terrifying. I see people who are completely paralyzed or practicing self-sabotaging behaviors to unconsciously prevent themselves from ever achieving beyond what they believe they deserve. People have so much unhealed “stuff” that the practice of covering it up takes all our available strength and energy. If we learned how to actually process our feelings in a healthy way when things first happen, we’d have a lot less fear and a lot more people fulfilling their dreams.

What would you like people to know about you and life coaching?

There is a beautiful Buddhist proverb that says, “When the student is ready the teacher will appear.” Life has been my teacher and my own need for new skills has been my greatest motivator.  One of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves is to ask for help when we feel stuck or uncertain. Coaching grew out of a common need people have for a guide to help us navigate the confines of our own thinking, to help us get out of our own box, so to speak. Among the services I offer are, Life Coaching, Spiritual Counseling and Workshops. To learn more, visit my new and continually expanding website at www.theevolvingself.com.