Archive for November, 2011

November 30th, 2011

Daily Dose of Inspiration

I just returned from a much needed trip that unleashed several unexpected hot spots for inspiration. The kind of vacation that makes you re-think what’s truly possible in your life and that redefines your role in it. All in all, the travel of a lifetime. Have one of those lately?

I’m excited to share with you the details. But for now, check out this photo I took:

Can you guess where this was taken?

How about with my iPhone in a plane overlooking the sun setting on my way back to California? Guessed right or are you surprised?

It’s a great re-[mind]-er to me to stop, pause and really see the extraordinary in the ordinary. Sometimes we need to be up high to see what’s glowing down below. Hope it brings you a shot of inspiration for your Wednesday.

November 25th, 2011

Creative Friday for the Busy Bee: Mini Eiffel

Happy Belated Thanksgiving!! Hope you had your turkey fill. And you’re ready to start a new week soon.

While you’re mourning the transition from relaxation to work, I thought I’d share a fun DIY project I did recently. {It’s so easy that calling it DIY maybe sort of untrue.} Keep reading to see what I mean.

Mr. Nate Berkus is always saying that we should keep mementos in our home that have meaning to us. That’s the only reason why I’ve kept this lil’ guy for almost 10 years.

That and he’s kind of cute:

As for the meaning part? It’s a two part answer. A long time ago, I worked as a Teaching Assistant for an Ethnic Studies course at the University of Hawaii. My co-TA was a wonderful, inspiring, intelligent and beautiful person who brought this back for me from her honeymoon in Paris. And the second reason? Years later, my husband and I went to Paris on our own honeymoon.

But this chotsky almost made it into the donation bin because I didn’t really know what to do with it. The color was a rusty shade and it didn’t fit in with my decor. I was contemplating turning it into a Christmas ornament. But it didn’t work. Threading a ribbon through the middle, where the only holes were, made it turn on its side. Not very Christmas like IMHO.

So I decided maybe he needed a different coat of color instead. I started with what I had available, which was a cottage-y green.

But it ended up looking like this:

Yikes! Like the monster from Ghostbusters slimed it.

It looked a little better after it dried. But I still didn’t like it. In fact, I liked it a lot less! So I decided to go back to the drawing board. And three other layers of colors (yellow, greenish blue and blue) later, I was happy with this artistic result:

Here’s another shot:

Have you done any edits to a project lately that you’re particularly proud of?

November 24th, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving!

November 21st, 2011

A Collage of Gratitude

I don’t think you could do enough posts on gratitude. Really.

Without gratitude, I could easily slink away into the cracks and crevices of an imperfect life without ever noticing the beautiful already perfect world around me.

Without gratitude, my mind might try to “Re-Mind” me of ways I’m not living up to the person next door.

Without gratitude, I might slide into a permanent attitude of unfairness and “poor me syndrome.”

Without gratitude, I would perceive everything through a dark narrow lens where the shadows are always on my side.

And with Thanksgiving coming up, I can’t afford to do that. I don’t have an unlimited amount of days to use up. So I choose to be grateful instead.

In honor of the upcoming holiday, I decided to create a collage of all the wonderful things in this world that I have to be grateful for. This one requires no text. My posts are text heavy as it is.

I hope you enjoy it and that it inspires you to create your own collage of gratitude. If you do decide to make one, leave a link in the comments. I’d love to see them.

 

November 18th, 2011

Creative Friday: Crafty Clothespins

Have you noticed my laziness lately?

I haven’t been crafting as much as talking about crafting. It’s something this guy reminded me of recently. How much of us are “hiding” behind easy, comfortable tasks because we’re afraid of confronting what’s really important and meaningful in our lives?

{hand raised.} I’m guilty.

I finally decided to bite the bullet and return to my creative ways.

There are so many reasons to do so.

Let me count the ways:

1. It’s good for my mental health.

2. It’s good for my self-confidence.

3. It’s fun!

4. It’s the holidays and there are so many things to be inspired by. {I recently wrote about holiday inspiration and writing for The Writer magazine here.}

But I’m procrastinating again. Could you tell?

Here’s just one more diversion.

I’m obsessed with Pinterest and have been cataloging all of my to-do one day craft list. It’s small, but you can kind of see it here. It’s among the growing list of ways I want to creatively express myself. If you’re on there, look for me here.


Anyway, I finally got to do a super fast and easy craft last night. And it was invigorating. I created crafty mini clothespins from reusing a 2009 Snow and Graham mini calendar, a pair of scissors, hot glue and a bag of leftover mini wooden clothespins.

Here are the results:

It’s not perfect. When have I done anything perfect? But it was fast, cheap and I was able to reuse an old calendar and some leftover clothespins so I’m pretty happy with the results.

One lesson I learned?

Next time, I’m going to try double-sided tape. Less hot glue burns.

November 15th, 2011

Surprising Things to Be Grateful For: Part 2

Continued from this post

6. Freedom to say, “Yes.” There are a lot of articles out there that tell you how to forgo your people-pleasing ways by saying, “No.” And I of all people know the importance of doing so. But sometimes instead of automatically saying it, what if we linger a bit? Just like my yoga teacher says in corpse pose. “Lay on your side and stay there for a few minutes before you get up.” Take your time to experience what the question is asking. Take your time to sit with the unknown. Too often we say, “No” to new experiences because of fear, because we’re afraid to open ourselves up to failing, to be uncomfortable or to being vulnerable. Giving yourself time to let the words settle in your mind and body can give you an entirely new perspective and maybe even encourage a new answer, one you weren’t expecting.

7. Mistakes. I have a love-hate relationship with mistakes. My ego hates when they are pointed out. But my soul knows that without them I won’t grow. Mistakes are like tiny little cracks in the earth. They allow the space where new life and thought sprout from. Because of that I’m grateful for them. And while I’m hardly apt to welcome them in my life, I perceive them as signs-signs to show me where I need a little more love, acceptance and self-growth.

8. Imperfections. I am short. My arms are not perfectly straight. My skin’s pale, my hair’s mousy and my voice is quiet and high. But I am grateful for all the things that I wanted to wish away when I was a teen. It’d be hard to label every single imperfection of mind as imperfect because I see how they perfectly make me “me.” If you find something about you that you particularly dislike, maybe you just haven’t found the meaning and beauty behind them yet. I have two crooked pinkies, for example. They make me imperfect, yes. But my great-grandma had them and so does my grandma and my dad. Maybe imperfection isn’t the right word. Maybe it’s being unique.

9. Fear. Fear is almost as bad of a word as the other four-letter F word. No one likes them. In fact, a few try to make them go away. I think all emotions are pure and purposeful if we accept them. They serve a purpose to alert us to danger, to tell us when we’ve gone too far and when we’re on the right track. The thing we need to learn is how to distinguish between real fear and the one that’s been built up from years of criticism, negativity and a lack of self-confidence.

10. Unsought dreams. For they are still in the cue waiting to be discovered, caught and found. What is the point if we have no dreams to pursue? When one dream is gloriously obtained, there waits another. I am above all grateful for this.

11. Unknown. Yes we don’t know what tomorrow brings. Yes we don’t know if that decision we made yesterday was a good one. But the courage it takes to choose when we don’t know is enough of a reason for me to be grateful for this mystery we call life.

What are you grateful for?

November 11th, 2011

11 Surprising Things to Be Grateful For: Part 1

“It is gratefulness which makes the soul great.”
- Abraham Joshua Heschel

I almost decided to skip Creative Friday today and posting all together. But I couldn’t pass up the chance to write something on November 11, 2011 {11/11/11}. And with Veterans Day being today and Thanksgiving just around the corner, I thought it’d be best to focus on what we have to be grateful for.

So here is my top 11 list of things anyone (especially me) can be grateful for:

1. Paths that could lead to anywhere. The whole point of life is to walk toward the unknown. We make decisions, we take steps, we live our life outside of comfort zone without any guarantees, without any knowledge of where we’ll end up, and that is both the beauty and mystery of life itself.

2. Unsupportive people. Maybe your father never believed in you or your aunt scowled at you whenever you talked about a dream. Although it’s hard to believe, the people who don’t support you are the ones you need to thank.  On the OWN network’s Visionaries: Inside the Creative Mind, director James Cameron talked about how his father discouraged his passion for science fiction books and his mother encouraged his creativity. He said it was the perfect mix to help fuel his career. We all need the discourages to motivate us to go beyond the status quo. Hard to believe, but they too serve a purpose in your creative pursuits.

3. Closed doors. We’re so focused on waiting for an open door that we don’t notice the ones that are not open. On Visionaries, James Cameron said, “Doors don’t just open for you. Every once-in-awhile one will open a crack and you have to recognize that that’s the moment…You have to push it the rest open and you have to know that that’s the moment to step through. It’s a question of being prepared. Knowing what you want, moving toward it so that you are prepared in that moment to step through the door.”

4. Nothingness. I’ve written about lulls before. While they are uncomfortable and awkward, they are important. They are the pause, the emptiness, the space between where you were to where you want to be. They provide a place for reflection, for rest, for contemplation. Although we might dread the boredom, the anxiety or the discomfort they cause, we need them in our life.

5. Feeling small. I adore trees. In fact, I might be infatuated with them. When I stand next to a tree, I feel tiny and small. But trees don’t just make me feel petite, they remind me that I shouldn’t be too big for my britches-that it’s not all about me. That whatever I do on earth has a domino impact on those around me. And that while my mind would like to remind me that I am the most important thing in the world, I know that my life is like a falling star, bright, special and brilliant, but just one of many and quick to be gone.

{to be continued…}