Posts tagged ‘Dealing with a busy schedule’

February 16th, 2011

GMDL Day 20: Awakening to Your Life

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If you haven’t picked up a copy of The Book of Awakening: Having the Life You Want by Being Present to the Life You Have by Mark Nepo you are missing out.

I heard about it after Oprah mentioned it as one of her favorite things. And now it’s become mine.

The book is broken up into short introspective, daily lessons and it is beautifully, if not, poetically written. Nepo’s prose and intuitively way he expresses his intentions makes me catalogue Mark Nepo as one of the people I wish I could write like. I find it lifts me up, provides insight and reflection at the end of my day.

But when I got to February 1 (I’m a few weeks behind), I had to hold up and pause because there was something very important about this chapter that I knew I needed to share with you:

Live Slow Enough

What does it mean to, “live slow enough?” Here’s an excerpt from his February 1st entry:

“Follow anything in its act of being-a snowflake falling, ice melting, a loved one waking-and we are ushered into the ongoing moment of the beginning, the quiet instant from which each breath starts. What makes this moment so crucial is that it continually releases the freshness of living. The key to finding this moment and all its freshness, again and again, is in slowing down.”

Isn’t that beautiful?

On top of the importance of observing our environment, he also mentions how sad it is that we are all running around so fast and for so long, that only two things can stop us: “illness or breakage.”

Isn’t that sad?

But it is true. Illness is what keeps me motivated on this daily challenges. And I hope that it won’t be what stops you from a too busy existence. My biggest regret is thinking and rethinking last year and wondering if there was anything I could have done to prevent the chronic illness that I have. I often wonder if I had lived my life enjoying it and worrying and stressing less, I would not be in the situation that I am in.

I don’t want that to happen to you.

Keep up the journey we are near the end.

Daily Challenge: Do one activity in slow motion. Whether it’s taking a shower, washing the dishes or even going for a walk. And as you do so, observe how you feel, be conscious of every motion. Sometimes slowing down gives you insight to a problem. Sometimes it gives you a sense of peace. Other times it feels as luxurious as a mini vacation. Try it. Then let me know what you think.

January 28th, 2011

GMDL 7: Reflection

Another week has passed. We’re 7 days in…

How are you holding up?

Are you finding that doing less is harder than you expected?

Do you find yourself feeling guilty, worried, anxious when you skip things on your to-do list?

Or are you reading this and still haven’t stopped doing a thing?

As we end the week, I hope you will take the time to reflect on where you are at now. Are you resisting change? And if so, why are you resisting it? What parts of your schedule do you find hardest to give up?

This will be a short post, but I’m leaving you with two gifts to end the week.

{photo by: stevendepolo}

1. This is a story taken from Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself from Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life by Judith Orloff.

A chief is talking to his tribe about two dogs inside his mind: one a white dog that is good and courageous, the other a black dog that is vengeful and angry. Both dogs are fighting to the death. A young brave, unable to wait for the end of the story asks, “Which one will win?” The chief responds. “The one I feed.”

At the end of the challenge, whatever you give the most attention to will grow. If you feed the good side of you that wants to rest and enjoy life, that part of your life, the life you desire will increase. If you neglect it and feed your constantly busy schedule and your uber busy life, your busyness and discontent will grow. The question is what do you want most for your life?

2. I found this wonderful website called Accomplishing More by Doing Less.

Not only is this a great resource for the challenge, but it also offers a free e-book on the subject.  To get it, click on the icon to the upper left of the website that says Office Zen. It’s a pdf and you don’t need to give out your email address to get a free copy. Yay!

Well my friends, that’s it for the first week of the challenge. Thank you for your support on Twitter and Facebook! You inspire me to keep getting better and better. See you all next week!