Archive for ‘Get More By Doing Less’

February 11th, 2011

GMDL Day 17: Things That Make You Go Hmmm…

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It’s the end of another week of tips to inspire you to do less. Whew it’s been a good one. Hasn’t it?

So far, I’ve had one awesome and courageous entrepreneur sign up for the challenge and another beautiful and talented photographer send me the sweetest email with the subject line, “I love your blog.”

It’s been an amazing week. Good and bad (did I mention a power outage and almost getting hit by a car?), but I’m embracing both. I’m alive. I’m grateful. And I’m still as motivated to do less as ever.

And we’ve still got a few days left in the challenge. I hope you’re still here with me.

To end the week, I have a few inspiring things including something I found in an inspiring book entitled The Purpose of Your Life by Carol Adrienne. Hope it will keep you motivated on your own challenge to do less!

Be Inspired


1. Accomplish More, Do Less: Find Your True North

This Care2 blogger and reader has a lot going on in her life (things like yoga, blogging, school, daily chores). Sound familiar? I’m sure we can all relate. But I was over the moon excited when I read this part of her blog:

“At least once a week someone asks me, ‘How do you do it all?’  My answer is always the same – I do less.”

In her blog, she shares her journey from doing too much to slimming down to the necessities. She also provides helpful tips on how to get there.

2. The Power of Vulnerability

I can’t take credit for finding this awesome, honest and super inspiring video. It was a colleague that discovered it.

You may be wondering how being vulnerable has anything to do with doing less. Here’s the thing. Sometimes we feel ashamed and fearful of being vulnerable. And instead of embracing our fears and imperfections, opening our wounds raw for everyone to see, we avoid the pain at all costs. Sometimes we do so by filling our life with busyness. It’s a powerful 20 minutes and I hope you will take the time to watch.

3. Anything is possible.

That is the title of chapter 4 in Adrienne’s life changing book. This weekend, reflect on this statement, what it means, and say it to yourself every time you stumble or encounter a mental block. I have been reciting those three beautiful words to myself and with it have found peace. What will you find?

If you’re new here, welcome! Don’t worry about starting on day 15 of the challenge. You can start at anytime. If you want, you can start here on day 1 of the challenge. Feedback’s always welcome. I would love to hear how you’re doing.

February 9th, 2011

GMDL Day 15: The Importance of Faith

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I bet there are some of you out there who think that this “accomplish more by doing less” thing is a bunch of baloney.

How could someone really get more ______ (money, meaning, quality time, etc.) by doing less?

It almost seems against your purpose doesn’t it? I get it. Really I do. But there is truth to that statement. And if you can figure out that truth sooner than later, you’ll discover the gold at the end of the rainbow. That gold is your life. That rainbow is the distance from where you are now to where you want to be.

Taking a Trip Down Movie Lane

There’s a line from a movie that has been stuck like a broken record taped to my brain. Did you ever see Neverending Story? The movie where a book literally (and I really mean literally) comes to life as the main character is reading it. It’s the type of movie a shy, introverted child who loves to read fantasizes about. A girl kind of like me.

Here’s Where I Get Nerdie

There is a line that I have been tossing around in my head since I first saw the movie eons ago. It’s the moment when the beautiful empress from the book calls out to the main character Bastian. She says, “Call my name. Bastian, please! Save us!” In my mind I hear her saying, “Bastian, why won’t you say my name?”

Anyway, that quote has been haunting me for awhile. Kind of like an annoying mosquito that won’t go away.

The Revelation

I realized that what was so meaningful about that line was it’s symbolism of faith. For those who haven’t seen the movie, I’ll explain. The fantasy land called Fantasia will be destroyed unless the boy who is reading the story about it will admit to it, validate its existence, believe.

I know it’s sappy right. But there is some substance to the movie.

If you don’t believe in the process. If you don’t have faith that doing less will bring more to your life, you will never change. You will be overworked, stressed, unhealthy and busy for the rest of your life.

As I continue on the journey to do less, I have to keep my faith. I must keep it when the dishes are not always done, when there are millions of things I think I “should” do, but don’t do it. I do it because I believe anything is possible-that a better life is waiting if I do the work and take the steps to change them now.

For today’s challenge: Write down in your journal answers to these questions. What keeps you from living the life you want to live? What obstacles stand in my way? What prevents you from having faith in the life of your dreams?

If you’re new here, welcome! Don’t worry about starting on day 15 of the challenge. You can start at anytime. If you want, you can start here on day 1 of the challenge. Feedback’s always welcome. I would love to hear how you’re doing.

February 8th, 2011

GMDL Day 14: The Detriment of Doing Too Much

It’s 14 days in of my Get More by Doing Less challenge and I’m all talked out. So instead of writing up another post, I thought why not show you instead?

This weekend I was googling up a storm trying to find the perfect video on the importance of slowing down. But after a few days I threw up my hands and gave up.

Can you guess what happened next?

Score a point for the person who predicted that the TED video miraculously showed up.

Today while I was on Twitter when I saw a tweet by @GuyKawasaki, founder of Alltop. He posted a TED Talk video on work-life balance.

This Video Will Change How You Live Your Life

It was only 10 minutes, but the video left an impression on me. As I am sure it will have on you. If you are contemplating whether it’s worth it to start dropping things off your to-do list, watch this.

You could be an entrepreneur, a busy full-time employee, a writer, or a mom. But if you’re working so hard you feel dizzy, forget what day it is, and begin to neglect yourself and your family, this is the wake up call you need.

I rarely feel this moved after watching an online video, especially one that is only 10 minutes, but I felt it important enough to share with you. I hope you will take the time to watch it.

February 7th, 2011

Get More by Doing Less Challenge 13: Find Your Happy Place

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If you want to get more by doing less, one of the things you need to be sure about is your happy place.

Do you know where your happy place is?

It’s that warm, fuzzy place where you feel like time stands still. It could be the place where you feel completely comfortable in your own skin or present in your surroundings. It could be a location like the beach or the library or it could be from within.

The more time you spend in that state of mind, the happier you will be. And the more authentic living you will live.

How to Find Your Happy Place

Grab a pen or a pencil and a pad of paper. Jot down all of the places that made you feel truly alive in the past. Think about all the activities that made you feel grateful, excited, inspired. Start with a list of 10 and add to it when you think of more.

Here is a list of mine:

  1. Biking anywhere in nature. When I think about my past trip to London and Paris, what is most memorable to me is our bike ride. I love to feel the wind on my face, the freedom that comes from letting go of the brakes, the ducks and squirrels that I pass and the sound of branches and leaves crunches underneath as I speed on by.
  2. 2. Old bookstores. When I spotted this bookstore in Paris, I thought I had found my own Louvre. I even contemplated bypassing that and a lot of the other “must-see before you die” tourist traps on our way through France. Why? Any book lover could tell you. It’s the smell of old and new mixing together to create a culmination of everything hopeful and inspiring, past and future, life and death. It actually didn’t matter if it was France, London or California. When I am surrounded by books, I feel as though I am in the company of friends. Friends that have lots of stories and secrets to share with me and I am open to hearing all of them.
  3. Museums. Art museums. History museums. Museums filled with weird stuff. I love all of them. I love marveling at paintings I don’t get and photographs I wish I took. When I am in the presence of greatness, I am inspired to be a better person. When I see history, I see my future. Museums hold our past, present and our future and I love reveling in all of it.
  4. A lil’ ole cottage in Point Reyes. I love cottages. I love their whimsy, their character, what they represent-treasuring what is old and respecting small spaces. If I could, I would live in a cottage surrounded by trees and farm animals. I would live there and type and just be. That’s the happy and peaceful place I dream of when I’m stressed, anxious and overwhelmed. It’s my go to spot when I need a mental break from my work at home writing life.
  5. Reading biographies of people who inspire me. When I read about Walt Disney’s trials and tribulations I feel instantly hopeful. If you know of people who have endured hardship and have not only survived, but flourished, you feel inspired and encouraged to transform your own dreams.
  6. The original happy place. Yes I am a big huge Disney fan. I used to go there every year. There are those who think I am crazy and some of the reasons are understandable (long lines, crowds, etc.). But I go because every time I set foot on one of the Disney parks I believe in magic again. And that’s enough reason for me.
  7. The true happy place. Finding love and peace can be as close and easy to get to as closing your eyes. I sometimes forget the importance of meditation. But every time I take the time to go there, I remember. I am reminded about how important it is to shut down our inner critic and our outer world and just let all things be. And it’s easy to get there. Just breathe.

What do you do after you create your list of happy places? Devote to spending time there at least once or twice a week.

February 4th, 2011

GMDL 12: An Oops Revelation


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You Are a Brandi!

That’s what I thought it said on Amazon.com today. I thought that there was a book that knew exactly what my name was and was calling out to me. My brain went from shock to thinking about ways they figured out my name. I’m not psychotic I promise.

It turns out the book’s title was You Are a Brand!

I think I misread the title for 3 reasons. One, I just had Lasik eye surgery so I can’t see clearly. And two, I needed a break.

It’s Friday and I’ve been blogging all week.

But it also signaled something else. It’s a reminder of who I am. I am a Brandi. And I am a Brandi regardless of what I do for a living, how much work I get done or how many goals I accomplish.

Remembering Who You Are

I hope you will create your own book title as a reminder of who you really are separate from the titles and accolades that you have or want to accomplish. If you strip away all of those goals and esteemed titles and roles, you are still you.

I hope you don’t lose sight of that as other things come and go. And that you remember you are the most important person in your life. You deserve time for yourself every day and especially on the weekend.

Inspiring Posts to Motivate You to Do Less

If you need the extra motivation, here are a few handpicked posts I’ve been collecting over the week to keep you on track:

  • 8 Ways Doing Less Can Transform Your Work & Life ala zenhabits. What can I say? I LOVE this blog! Leo Babauta simply describes what I’m trying to help you do in a single post.
  • Journaling 101, Part 5 of 8: What to Do When Doubt Casts Its Shadow via Whole Living Magazine’s blog Whole Living Daily. Whatever your intention is (whether it’s writing a novel or in our case, doing less), you’ll need help dealing with your shadows. This lovely post may help you do it.

  • That’s it for this week!

    I have to say these last few days have made me feel more whole, less hard on myself and more accepting of my flaws. What has it done for you? Share your story (good or bad) with me here. <3, Brandi.

February 3rd, 2011

GMDL Day 11: 10 Withdrawal Symptoms from Doing Less

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It’s day 11 on the challenge. While I don’t feel as angry as the Oprah show producer who swore off meat for a week and felt like punching out the vegan in charge, I am having withdrawals. Are you?

Here are a few of the symptoms:

  1. Worry about the to-do list that didn’t get done.
  2. Anxiety about the consequences of #1.
  3. Sadness about dealing with what was under the “busyness.”
  4. Feeling like a failure because you couldn’t do everything.
  5. Waking up in the middle of the night panicked because you feel like you forgot to do something.
  6. Afraid of something you hadn’t confronted in the past.
  7. Worry about your future.
  8. Jumpy and concerned and feeling something is just not right.
  9. You suddenly have free time that you don’t know what to do with.
  10. Or maybe you just feel pure happiness for the first time in a long while.


If you’re experiencing one or more of the symptoms above, here are a few tips to remedy it:

  1. Embrace your free time by spending it with loved ones.
  2. Pick up a hobby you neglected you were too busy to do before.
  3. Meditate.
  4. Grab a journal and discover where the anxiety comes from.
  5. Just be. That means let yourself feel sad, anxious and angry. Just sit with it. Sometimes keeping busy helps us cover up difficult feelings.
  6. Be patient. Changing habits take time. If you freak out every once in awhile thinking something must be done, calmly remind yourself that the only thing you need to do in this moment is breathe.
  7. Devote the extra time you have to making everything you do really good!
  8. Use those moments of failure, feeling inadequate and imperfect to practice being kind to yourself.
  9. Every day write down what you didn’t do and the consequence of that non-action. Over time you will realize that nothing serious happened when you let things slide. You might even discover the importance of letting others help you when you stop being in control.
  10. Indulge in the time you have. Get a massage. Spend an entire evening reading a magazine from front to back (I did and found it glorious!).

As always, I would love to receive feedback from how you are doing and get and give support along the way. Please tweet, comment and share the challenge with those you love.

February 2nd, 2011

GMDL 10: Gain More by Needing Less

Gain More by Needing Less

I know the challenge is all about getting more by doing less. But I think a BIG part of that is gaining more by needing less. Know what I mean?

It’s a slight shift in perspective, but one worth noting.

What if, for example, instead of working more to make more money:

  • we save our money
  • we use coupons
  • or we begin to appreciate what we do have?

Determining What You Really Need

In the August issue of O magazine, which I’m sad to say I’m only reading now, Martha Beck breaks down our needs and wants into four quadrants.

Forgive my drawing skills, but it looks something like this:

It was a table to bring consciousness to spending. But I think it’s also a great way to incorporate conscious thinking into how we spend not just our $, but our time.

Here’s your first homework assignment:

Think about one thing in your life that you’re spending time on, but question it’s value or purpose. Whether it’s an hour watching TV or on the internet, measure it against this matrix. What did you find? Did that specific activity stand up to the test? When you spend more time doing things you love and a few things you need (quadrants 1-3), you are creating a life filled with happiness and joy.

What do you think?

Does it help put your life into perspective? What has helped you get more from your life?