Archive for ‘Inspiring Guest Blogger’

November 14th, 2012

How to Get What You Want In Life

{flickr photo by: Spiritual Quotes To Live By Trina}

I’ve always been interested in the Law of Attraction since I saw it on Oprah. Who wouldn’t want to get what they want by thinking about it? But to be honest I never really understood how it worked. Until now. I have author and teacher Aan D. Frazier to thank. In this guest post, she breaks it down into easy peasy verbiage so we can all get what we want in life. Thank you Aan!

{guest post by: Aan D. Frazier}

Destinations. We all have them in our lives. Many of us are always finding trying to find ways to get from point A to point B. In understanding the Law of Attraction, we learn that it is not the Law of Attraction’s responsibility for bringing point B to us. It is rather our responsibility for carving our path to point B. And our powerful mind is the navigation system for carving such a path.

The basis for the Law of Attraction lies in the power of our thoughts and the power of our mind. Yes, this is absolutely true. We steadily do become what we think about. What many people fail to understand, however, is that positive thinking alone will not always bring us what we desire. Hmmm, think about a million dollars all day and it should eventually show up right? Well, not quite.

The Law of Attraction is actually capable of bringing random and simple thoughts to life by just our mere thinking. For example, a person may be thinking of their favorite car and then somehow see it zooming down the road later that day. But if we take a close look at our dreams and desires, they are usually grand dreams and desires; most of which require a creation period to manifest. It should not come as a surprise then, that action and belief driven effort play an important role in such journeying paths.

To illustrate how to effectively use the Law of Attraction, here is an example: Jack’s car breaks down while on his way to a family reunion. Rather than sit in his car and think positive thoughts, Jack should visualize himself making it to his destination. In doing so, his mind will bring forth ideas and solutions to take inspired action upon. He may think to pop the hood and check out the problem. Jack may attract the idea of calling up his buddy who knows about cars. He may decide to call AAA.

There are tons of ideas that will only be attracted to Jack’s mind only if he allows for them to do so. Focusing on what he wants will give him the necessary foundation for what he needs to do in order to reach his goal. Belief is also an important factor. Jack has to believe that making it to point B is possible for him. Whatever he decides to do, Jack will inevitable carve a path from A to B if he never gives up. There will be trial and error moments, but again, persistence will provide results.

The Law of Attraction is actually already working in your life. Awareness of its work and understanding how it works can help you put it to meaningful use. Always remember that you hold the power of decision and creation within you. You call the shots. You carve the road. The Law of Attraction itself does not bring you things. It is you that propels yourself towards point B by using your magnetic mind to tap into the Law of Attraction, followed and inspired action.

Understanding the Law of Attraction means that you can literally create the life desire. Just think about what you want and then go about creating it. It can really be that simple. What amazing things will you set out to do today?

Aan D. Frazier is a Vietnamese American and survivor of the Vietnam War. Her blessed roots, surviving a boat ride to freedom at the age of one, have always motivated Aan to seek ways to make a difference in other people’s lives. Aan’s discovery of the Law of Attraction caused her to view her life in a positive new light and she started living her life as in intentional creator. The goal for her book Your Magnetic Mind is to teach others about the Law of Attraction in simple language. You can read more about her at her website and on her blog. She’s on Twitter and Facebook too!

January 3rd, 2012

New Year’s Day Every Day

Once in awhile someone will cross your path by chance and you know it’s for a purpose. I felt that way about this lady, and I feel the same way about my guest blogger Cindy Scheopner. Her story below brings me hope about the possibility of changing our lives. Not just on New Year’s Day, but every day. It’s such an inspiring post.

by: guest blogger

I cannot ask for a New Year better than the one that ended. Each year has mostly been better than the past. I am pursuing a PhD in philosophy in Hawaii, a late in life, third career that is going well. My life partner is supportive and kind. He sails while I philosophize. Our children and grandchildren are healthy.

That does not mean everything is perfect. I manage, somehow, to stress myself while living in Hawaii. I am behind on several projects. My kids call with complaints about what I have or have not done. I’m overdue for a haircut and still carrying around more weight than I would like. I haven’t yet found the Tai Chi group I’d like to join.

These concerns pale in contrast with the past. Once, I struggled to balance a very demanding professional life with an increasingly dysfunctional private one. The man who captured my heart insisted on stomping my spirit – an exercise that destroyed us both. Making me feel bad didn’t make him feel better but he couldn’t stop and I couldn’t stop caring. For many years, I thought I could become perfect enough to make him happy. Even after I no longer believed that, I wasn’t sure how to release myself and my children from his death grip.

I cannot say the process was easy or fast. But each day I take a certain number of steps. The days that I take more steps forward than backward leave a foundation for the next that is higher than the last. Some steps were through blurry tears. Some were through sheer terror. But they led me to a place of respite where I could forgive myself and look ahead.

Eventually, I craved adult companionship but could not imagine who would want to share my messy life. Imagine my surprise when it turned out to be a fellow refugee. We joined hands and continued to make daily steps-still sideways sometimes, often in circles but always beside one another.

Often my partner says “I can’t believe we can live like this!” He means living in Hawaii, but he also means living in peace with one another. I don’t know how we managed to find one another, but we each realized how lucky we are and hang on tight. The advantage of a miserable past is appreciating a less-than-perfect present.

As I walk along the beach, I watch each new wave erase footprints from the sand. It is an ancient, eternal process that restores the sand perpetually. I seek not perfection in my future nor to erase the imperfections of the past – only the new beginning promised by each wave.

About Cindy Scheopner: Cindy lives in Hawaii with her partner, Rick. She is writing a dissertation to complete her philosophy PhD while Rick sails. Between them, they have six daughters, four step-children and three grandchildren. In past lives, Cindy was an attorney (briefly) and a journalist (lengthily). She has no idea what she’ll do with a philosophy degree, but it’s a whole lot of fun. She Tweets as @Scheopner and posts random pictures and thoughts at: http://scheopner.posterous.com/

October 8th, 2010

Guest Posting on Being Inspiring

Sorry if I’ve been MIA lately! But I recently got a magazine article idea accepted and have been researching like crazy!

I have also been hopping over and visiting other bloggers. Lucky for me a facebook friend I admire asked me to write something over at her blog Making Baby Grand and I happily obliged.

It’s all about bringing inspiration to your life.

You can check out the post here.

Have a great weekend!

September 21st, 2010

Writing & The Muse: 5 Ways to Catch Inspiration

By guest blogger: Margarita Tartakovsky

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Inspiration comes in waves. I think it’s safe to say that all of us seesaw between having ideas ooze from every part of our bodies to feeling empty and wondering when, why and how the spark dimmed out.

So for those days when you feel like you’re pulling at inspiration’s teeth, here are five ideas for coaxing your muse out from the shadows. read more »

September 7th, 2010

How Your Education Can Stand in the Way of Your Dreams

By guest blogger: Sue Mitchell, Your Business Your Self

When Barack Obama visits schools, he writes on the wall, “Dream big dreams.” It’s an inspiring sentiment. But are schools really giving us what we need in order to pursue and achieve our dreams?

In order to persistently pursue a dream, you have to have a certain amount of faith. You have to believe the dream is achievable, first of all. And you have to believe that you personally can achieve it. If schools are designed to give us the necessary skills and attitudes to pursue and achieve our dreams, then giving us faith in ourselves would seem to be Step 1.

So is this what actually happens? read more »