Author: Brandi
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It’s Not Them. It’s You!
The hardest thing to do, which is also the most life-changing, is to take responsibility for your life. This means that you look at everything going on right now, not as evidence of bad luck or misfortune, but as the decisions that led you up to this point. It is not about self-blame or self-pity….
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When Your Best Isn’t Quite Good Enough
From Out of Control to Controlling I felt out of control a lot as a kid. We all did. We were completely dependent on tall, powerful beings that controlled what we could eat, what time we could go to bed, and what we did. While there is comfort in depending on others, it made me…
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What is My Purpose In Life? The 3 Stages of Finding Your Purpose
I’ve spent about a decade trying to answer that question. I looked for it in books, from gurus, school counselors, life coaches and even psychics. But it only took revisiting my childhood passion to figure out what I always knew: wish list for a typewriter + hours of making up stories + writing poems when…
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The Key to Having More
Everyone wants a better life. They desire bigger homes with huge lots, more money, a better job. But when it comes down to it. What we’re really after is more love, deeper relationships, a more meaningful life. And you can easily get all of those things. You just have to focus on what you really…
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Finding Paradise in Hell
We can’t always control where we are in a moment. You could, for example, be reclining in a lounge chair, umbrella laced drink in hand, staring into a turquoise hued pool and still be tormented by worries and untamed thoughts. You could just as easily be sitting in a tiny room packed with physical clutter,…