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April 27th, 2010

Finding Purpose Through Tragedy

If you’re feeling stuck, as in you’re stagnating, floating, but not making a real impression in life, then I’d dare you to try something different. You may be treading in shallow waters out of fear.

I tried it this weekend when I did something most introverts wouldn’t dare do-man a booth for 8 hours at a festival filled with several hundred people. Without meaning to, I gained a lot more than a nose tan and a sore behind. I learned not only that there was an entire community out there that I could connect with, but that there was a vast sea of opportunity right outside of my front door. If you can only get past your fears, you may discover your true path and find meaning in your life.

Speaking of which, it’s week #7 of The Joy Diet. And it’s playtime! One of the little nuggets of wisdom that I adore in this chapter is its stress on playing for your career. If you’re still scratching your head in confusion and unclear about your life’s purpose-your career-try answering this question.

Beck asks us, “What did you do on the evening of September 11, 2001?

The reason? In the midst of tragedy, we often are reminded that life is short. Suddenly, life takes on new meaning and we return to what is true to us.

On September 11th, I remember going into work, which was really pointless. None of us got anything done. Except I do remember doing one thing with passion. I sat at my desk and wrote a poem. Then, when I went home that evening, I wrote an article for the local newspaper. Tragedy forced out my true calling. And I think if it happened to me, it might just do the same for you.

This week, I dare you to do something out of the ordinary (whether it’s taking a new class or trying a new hobby), then sit down and remember what you were doing on September 11th. See if doing them will spark a new or renewed interest in your calling and help reconnect you to your true purpose and find meaning in your life.