On the well worn path toward the gold at the end of the rainbow, there will be many sidesteps along the way. Sometimes the road is unpaved and hard and there are no signs along the way to alert you where to go. And then you see a temporary haven, an easy way out, a shortcut towards your dreams. The question is do you take it?
Well if you have been reading my blog for a few weeks now, you know that I’ve favored saying yes in the past. That’s why you might be surprised to now read that I’ve had a change of heart. Maybe it is not always good to say yes to every opportunity. In fact, recently I have relearned the value of saying no.
Sometimes when we’re on our way to fulfilling our dreams it can seem like forever and the gap between where we are now until where we want to be can feel overwhelming. But oftentimes we can’t see how close we are to the end. We’re on our final lap and we don’t even know it but in our frustration we may give up too easily.
When we are feeling desperate, we start desiring anything and everything. You know the feeling you get when you’ve been dieting for too long and EVERYTHING starts to look good! Well that’s what happens when you feel like you’ll never get the relationship, the job, or that plum writing assignment you are dreaming of. Out of desperation you begin thinking of giving up. You might think to yourself, “I might as well just ___ (fill in the blank with your chosen act of desperation) because I won’t ever get to ______ (fill in the blank with your dream).”
Well I’m hear to tell you, “Just Say No!” Although the temptation may be great, taking that low paying job or that high paying job you hate just because you are worried you won’t ever get there will only get you even farther from your dreams. Stick to your goals. Remember why you came here in the first place. And don’t ever let your feelings of insecurites, self-doubt and desperation talk you into saying yes to living a life that’s less than the one that you deserve. You will get there with time, patience, hard work and the belief that you can really succeed. Trust me. Saying yes to opportunities you don’t believe in and that doesn’t fulfill you is less of an opportunity and more of a temporary shortcut, one that will undermine your hardwork and prevent you from living the life of your dreams.
