Posts tagged ‘career’

April 16th, 2009

Think You Don't Have What it Takes to be Successful? Think Again

I’m noticing a pattern these days with successful people and you may be surprised by what I’ve observed. On Oprah, for example, Carrie Underwood said she never dreamed that her life would be about singing.  She said although it would have been nice, unlike other people, she never spent her life dreaming about being a singer-that everything just seem to come easy for her.  On one of my favorite blogs, This Young House, design couple John and Sherry Petersik have transformed themselves into superstar designers receiving a flurry of media attention on everywhere from CNN and HGTV to DIY and The Nest magazines.  When asked how they were able to obtain such coveted opportunities by Decor Medley, the couple said that a lot of it was by chance.  The publications sought them out and essentially came to them after having seen their blog.  What started as their desire to renovate their 50 year old ranch house and blog about it to keep their friends and family updated, transformed into a full blown successful career.  I know of a lot of other people personally who found their life calling “by chance.”  In fact, Oprah always says, “Find your passion and the money will follow.”  Her own successful path began when she was pulled off of the regular news and dumped onto the morning show.  She said she felt like things just fell into place from there felt she had found her passion.  This got me thinking…Maybe we all have a calling that’s just waiting for us to be brave enough, open enough and ready to take the call.

Tip: Try finding something that comes easy for you and that you enjoy.  That seems to be the secret at least for the people in these three stories. Also, check out Jean Chatzky’s article about finding your passion.  

The main idea is that these people were not trying desperately to make money but were driven by their dreams. It seems that connecting with one’s true purpose not out of fear or desperation but out of their desires and passions, led them to live a life that financially provides for them.

April 9th, 2009

How to Love the Job You Hate

I’m noticing a trend lately with people stuck in jobs they dislike out of fear of the alternative. Hearing about how thousands of people are being laid-off, those of us who are lucky enough to have a job, hold on to it with our life. With that being said, though we are grateful, how do we continue to stay in jobs we hate for the love of money?

Monster.com has an article on ways to stay happy at work.  Doing things like making friends, eating healthy and getting organized are things we probably already know.  But there are other things you can do that the article suggests that we may take for granted, such as focusing on the positives at work whether that may be as miniscule as liking the peace and quiet of your cubicle or enjoying your lunch hour.  The more you focus on what is good about the place you’re at, the easier it will be to be there. Elizabeth Lesser, co-founder of the Omega Institute in New York who also has a spot on Oprah’s XM radio show, talked to Oprah about how being present in your job will also help you get clearer about what you want to do.  Sometimes it will bring you opportunities when a new position opens or it will give you an answer about whether you should stay or start getting ready to go.  

For me, I try to take every moment as they come.  Using my lunch hour to either get to know a co-worker better or to catch up on my writing or reading.  Those moments have taught me patience and appreciation.  I know that eventually the reason for my purpose in this moment will show, so in the meantime I’m working on keeping myself inspired, motivated and prepared for the next phase of my life.

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