Posts tagged ‘This Young House’

April 21st, 2009

Asking a Mentor, Part II

Another one of my inspirational role models is young couple John and Sherry of “This Young House.”  I was driven to their beautiful blog when I caught an episode of HGTV’s “Rate My Space” and got wind of their uber-talents in interior design.  Soon after, I was hooked!  And following my first successful attempt to email a mentor (see previous entry below), I was less afraid to take the plunge and try it again.  

Well, I couldn’t have been more thrilled with Sherry’s response!  She was kind, SO cool, and just like I’d imagined her to be-full of energy and passion for what she does-a true inspiration to me.  Read an excerpt of Sherry’s email below to find out what her secrets are for getting to where she is today.  I’ve broken it up into themes by what factors helped get them on their way.

1.  Luck & Gratitude.  We have definitely had a series of lucky breaks to end up where we are today in the blog world, and for that we’re eternally thankful. We never solicited these mentions, people found us and liked what they saw- which is truly amazing and we still pinch ourselves when we think about it!”

2. Opportunity. “It might not have been the job that we always wanted, but once we started to grow and get such a great response it quickly became clear that it was what we loved doing, and we’d do anything we could to keep it going and help it grow even more!”

3. Talent & Hard Work. “I also think a lot of our success has to do with the fact that we’re actually writers (I used to be a copywriter and John’s still in advertising to this day) and we truly love to write (we ENJOY it and it’s never a chore) and we try very hard to come up with creative and unexpected approaches to decorating that won’t break the bank (which is really something that people can relate to these days). I’m not gonna lie- it’s the hardest job we’ve ever had. We work weekends and nights and we’re never really “off” because the internet is 24/7 and someone always has a question or places an order that we have to fill. Our to-do list is always eons long- and of course we still have to find time to write posts and complete house projects to keep people coming back! In short, it’s definitely a lot of work but it’s also rewarding and creative and challenging too. And we love a challenge!” 

4. Passion. I have no idea what I would be doing if I didn’t have the blog to keep me busy. Probably still writing copy for advertising (which I also enjoyed, I even wrote some celebrity stuff for the Got Milk campaign when we were in NYC). But the blog brings a different sort of independent satisfaction. We do it all and we’re the boss and we decide everything that happens with it and that’s very satisfying and empowering. Plus I’m just crazy about design and decorating and online shopping and color and art so it’s a great combination of a ton of things that really float my boat!” 

5. Dream.  I think our dream was to create a place that we’d love to drop in on (a site with tutorials and info and nice people who actually answer questions and emails), so we created the thing that we hadn’t found yet and people really seem to be happy that we did.” 

April 16th, 2009

Think You Don't Have What it Takes to be Successful? Think Again

I’m noticing a pattern these days with successful people and you may be surprised by what I’ve observed. On Oprah, for example, Carrie Underwood said she never dreamed that her life would be about singing.  She said although it would have been nice, unlike other people, she never spent her life dreaming about being a singer-that everything just seem to come easy for her.  On one of my favorite blogs, This Young House, design couple John and Sherry Petersik have transformed themselves into superstar designers receiving a flurry of media attention on everywhere from CNN and HGTV to DIY and The Nest magazines.  When asked how they were able to obtain such coveted opportunities by Decor Medley, the couple said that a lot of it was by chance.  The publications sought them out and essentially came to them after having seen their blog.  What started as their desire to renovate their 50 year old ranch house and blog about it to keep their friends and family updated, transformed into a full blown successful career.  I know of a lot of other people personally who found their life calling “by chance.”  In fact, Oprah always says, “Find your passion and the money will follow.”  Her own successful path began when she was pulled off of the regular news and dumped onto the morning show.  She said she felt like things just fell into place from there felt she had found her passion.  This got me thinking…Maybe we all have a calling that’s just waiting for us to be brave enough, open enough and ready to take the call.

Tip: Try finding something that comes easy for you and that you enjoy.  That seems to be the secret at least for the people in these three stories. Also, check out Jean Chatzky’s article about finding your passion.  

The main idea is that these people were not trying desperately to make money but were driven by their dreams. It seems that connecting with one’s true purpose not out of fear or desperation but out of their desires and passions, led them to live a life that financially provides for them.